Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda...

Ahhhhh the dreaded Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda...simple translation "REGRET". For the most part, I've always tried to live my life with no regrets.  It isn't easy though, sometimes I make bad decisions because I feel like it's right at the time. Is it?  Well, I guess the answer should be "yes".  OR at least I try to tell myself that it is "right".

It's such an unsettling feeling when you walk away from a situation, think it through and then say "I coulda done this." "I shoulda done that."  If only I woulda..."  Because it provides no solution to an actual problem. In reality though, I guess that's how we learn and grow.  Sometimes its a painful lesson, but as the saying goes "no pain, no gain."  I don't have any profound advice or answers on how to get through it, but I do agree that you have to let go of the "coulda, shoulda, woulda", buckle up and keep going.  Sometimes that means finding a new direction and if that's the case, so be it.  Just drive more carefully next time.

Totally off topic...I sometimes think I'm Carrie Bradshaw over here, tapping away at my keyboard.  God I miss that show.

Keep Going,

*A special thanks and shout out to my friend Deanna at Stilettos and Sweats, I borrowed this picture from her Facebook Fan Page.